Conversations and Clutter

Jeremy Shank

Clearing Roadblocks to Gospel Conversations

We talk about so many things. Food. Weather. Work. Sports. Sometimes we let needed conversations – even the most important ones regarding Jesus and the Gospel – we let these slide. We don’t know how to begin. Or we don’t know what to say. Why does it feel so hard to talk about what is most important?

I suggest one big roadblock is clutter: clutter in our lives, and especially clutter in our conversations. It can be hard to “find the time” to talk about what is most important – such as following Jesus – because the reality is that we expect to fill a bit of our interactions with what is convenient to say rather than what is more helpful or meaningful to say. For so many, it is not the true lack of opportunity, but rather the ineffective use of time. Apostle Paul urges us to make the most of the limited time we have (Ephesians 5:15-17). We actually can make intentional choices to reduce clutter in our conversations by proactively giving appropriate and greater priority to conversation that is more substantial. Yes, we have so much work and responsibility. And even so, we find ways to talk with the people we love and interact with. It is conversations in these spaces where this kind of meaningful and helpful dialogue needs to grow.

Remember, however, that chit-chat itself is good in its proper place. There are a very few people I have met who have the opposite problem: they just want to dive into deep conversation right away and leave zero room for chit-chat. However, most people are wired for and do need to be able to have some chit-chat. Anyone can talk about the weather, or a hobby, or something that happened earlier that day. But when we are being intentional to create room for what is essential and meaningful, chit-chat then really serves a larger purpose, preparing the parties in the conversation for what is even better.

I would say another big roadblock is our own agenda. Sometimes we need, but often the truth is that we personally prefer the conversation or interaction to be “over” in a particular time frame. We might be concerned that if we do bring up something meaningful, we might end up interacting longer than we had planned to do so.

A third barrier can be a lack of attentiveness to or desire for Jesus. God may be providing opportunities for us to share our story, the story of His work in our lives personally, but we are unable to see because we are so distracted by so many lesser things.

Also, we can feel unable to share our story or be slow to do so because we feel we don’t have all the answers. Join the club! I don’t have all the answers either! But even in the midst of our own personal questions, what we do have is our on-going story: the reality of who Jesus is to us and what He has done and is doing in our lives.

Jesus is our life. We just want others to connect to Him. I invite you to give God more room in your life so that you can see what He is up to within you and around you, and so that you can join God in His work. May you experience God’s love even as you join God in what He is doing.
Blessings,
Pastor Jeremy
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